Difference in expectations boys have and girls have from their partners

In every relationship partners have some sort of expectations from each other. Though having high expectations from your partner is often unhealthy for any relationship yet we can’t deny the fact that everyone expects something from their partners.

Let us find out what expectations couples usually have from each other.

What boys expect from their partner

Guys like their girlfriends to care for them 

One thing man expects in a relationship is the feeling of being cared for. This is one of the things guys secretly love. So start pampering and surprising your guy every now and then with some little gifts too.

They want their partner to make them laugh

According to many guys, the most adorable acts their girlfriends do is make them laugh. You don’t need to have comedy skills to make him laugh. Your own sense of humor would just do the trick.

Guys like their girl who appreciate his efforts

From handling your mood swings to pampering you, your boyfriend puts a lot of effort in the relationship. So, you can reciprocate by appreciating him. Once a while, you can leave a ‘Thank You’ note on his side table saying how much he means to you.

Guys like when their girlfriend compliment them

Like us women, compliments do make men happy! When you give compliment, it makes the other person feel noticed and valued.

Guys like when their girl cheer leads for them.

A guy loves the way his girlfriend’s eyes glow when she comes to meet him. It’s such a simple thing that holds so much beauty.

What girls expect from their partner
Every couple is different, and every woman might have her own expectations on how the relationship should be. One woman might want a man who is financially supportive while another might not want her man paying for anything – expect maybe on date night.

Clarity Of Thought

What is clarity? A lot of times people are unclear about clarity of thought in a relationship is… Being clear is about knowing the importance of a person in your life and making a point to show it to them, in any way you know.

Patience To Understand

Women can be complex and confusing creatures sometimes, mostly if and when they’re afraid, or upset but don’t know how to show it. And heart of heart, women know this. They know how they sometimes lead you on, confuse you, push you away and then pull you back in, all the while trying not to do any of it. All they want is for you to be patient in your understanding of them. They need someone who is always there for them.

Mutual Respect

This is one of the most underrated and under-observed things about two people in a relationship. Having respect for one another goes beyond just literal terms here. It’s about respecting each other’s personal spaces, as well as mental stamina. It’s as simple as respecting that she may not like eating red meat and may like to sleep on the right side. And it goes the vice versa, here.

Deeper Understanding

Respect in simple terms means understanding. Relationship is about coexistence. One cannot exist without the other, simple. Yes, agreed she’s complex and difficult sometimes. But, take a moment to really understand why she is doing, saying, or acting the way that she is. There is always a reason, however deep-seated it may be. And most times, women don’t speak up about their reasons out of fear etc. At such moment you really should try your best to have a deeper understanding about her reasons and also be her greatest support.


Consistency means not giving up; not giving in, it means to be her constant support through thick and thin. Consistency means wiping her tears and making up with her when you’re 80-years-old, the exact same way that you did when you were 30.


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