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What a man looks for in a woman? - Defence Wards Matrimony

What a man looks for in a woman?

All human beings are different, we have our own likes and dislikes. Even when it comes to choosing a partner, everybody has their own personal choice. Ladies first choice has always been a funny, smart and intelligent man. A Funny man or a person having a good sense of humour always grabs the attention of the opposite sex.

It won’t be wrong if we say “Most Girls are comfortable with someone who could make them laugh.”


American Author Fran Lebowitz said: “The cultural values(in humour)are male; for women to say a man is funny is the equivalent of a man saying that a woman is pretty.”

Most men look for beauty in women. Looks is what matters the most, and then shared values and interest.

For women, the sense of humour holds the highest point, then shared values and interest and after that comes looks. But this is limited only to dating life.

Wise people know, When choosing a partner for a lifetime, looks are the last thing to bother about. Following are the points A gentleman would always look for in a woman before marrying her-

Family oriented

A woman who values both her’s and the boy’s family is important when considering a long term future. A girl who does not value family is of course not a bad person but such a person is expected to be not a very good future wife or mother.

Values Relationship more than Wealth

Ups and downs are parts of life. You never know what might happen tomorrow. Therefore a man needs someone who could always stand by his side to love and value him.


A woman who is thoughtful, Loving and Caring. Who does small things for him for no other reason that she loves him. A woman who radiates warmth from her heart. That is a woman a man would want to marry.


A woman who is more ambitious than her man, who is always there to support and encourage him to achieve his goals(hers as well). A mature woman has a vision for her future and chases after it with voracity.

Physical Attraction

Sorry but this needs to be mentioned. There needs to be a physical attractiveness between the partners to have a successful married life. A man wants a woman who could fulfil his desires. But to be attractive does not always mean having a fit body or curves, its all about love and compatibility.


Little boys who want the popular girl might, but real men don’t play those games. A real man wants someone who could respect him, his thoughts and also value his existence.

Willing to put in Effort on him

Nobody is perfect, for a lifetime partner, a man needs someone who is ready to put in effort on him. Her putting in effort doesn’t have to be much. It can be something as simple as encouraging him when he is feeling down. Caring for him when things go wrong.

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